08-25-2018, 08:41 AM
Hello "Nostalgia".
Also from me congratulations to your great post.
You pointed it out with enthusiasm and logic. Penny would never have tried to change Sheldon and vice versa also not. That was one of the main-points made this two together so great in their interactions.
Well, I once read which is a feature that a relationship is really based on love. If there is a habit of the partner which make the other one sometimes angry, maybe even furious, then imagine how the partner would be without this habit. If there is the thought that he/she would be better without it, than this relationship has problems. Then there is no attraction because the other is as he/she is, but because of the desire as the other one should be. "Lenny" and "Shamy".
But if there is the result that you would even miss this, sometimes annoying habit of the other, because then it is no longer the person you like, than it is real love. And exactly this way, the "Shenny" would work.
Like "Tuesday", I would have despised "Shenny" if it had been written like "Shamy", but,...looking at it by light,...it would have been impossible to write it in this way.
Also from me congratulations to your great post.
You pointed it out with enthusiasm and logic. Penny would never have tried to change Sheldon and vice versa also not. That was one of the main-points made this two together so great in their interactions.
Well, I once read which is a feature that a relationship is really based on love. If there is a habit of the partner which make the other one sometimes angry, maybe even furious, then imagine how the partner would be without this habit. If there is the thought that he/she would be better without it, than this relationship has problems. Then there is no attraction because the other is as he/she is, but because of the desire as the other one should be. "Lenny" and "Shamy".
But if there is the result that you would even miss this, sometimes annoying habit of the other, because then it is no longer the person you like, than it is real love. And exactly this way, the "Shenny" would work.
Like "Tuesday", I would have despised "Shenny" if it had been written like "Shamy", but,...looking at it by light,...it would have been impossible to write it in this way.